Why do we have this desire to be with someone?
A significant other.
Why do I need to be with someone?
Why has it become so important for people to find their significant others. I'm an individual, I am my own person. I don't need another person to complete me. I am me. Without anyone.
"Do you have a boyfriend?"
Don't look at me and pity me because I don't have someone. Just because I don't have a man in my life doesn't mean I'm lonely or I don't have anyone.
I have people. I have important people in my life.
I have the best people I could ever ask for.
So I think it was the Pussycat Dolls that told me
"I don't needa man"
And that's how I'm going to live, I don't need anyone.
Of course, I wouldn't pass up an opportunity to spend the rest of my life with someone that I truly care about but I don't need to make it my life's mission to find that person or obsess over that person. I'm going to live MY life and a lack of a relationship is not going to change that.
End of story.
Sunday, March 1, 2009
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